Some days you will just be able to focus on you and what you need to do and you won;;t have the energy to do anything else. AND THAT IS OK! We are constantly striving to please everyone around us. No make everyone around us feel better that we often neglect ourselves and not focus on us getting better. Accept the fact that not everyone will like you. Accept the fact that you cannot make everyone happy all the time and you will feel your shoulders becoming lighter!